“as long as you are alive, there are always options,”
he said, &
i hated him for his
optimism—
he’d done so much for me &
he wasn’t even family,
he was just a friend—
and
i hated him for his optimism—
certainly,
we had gone down different roads,
what with he being a couple of years older &
having moved to the city a few years earlier—
though there was an unspoken reverence i feel
new-fish-transplants had for
the older-still-surviving-transplants,
i still hated him for his optimism—
i spent time in other countries,
having seen poverty that i knew he’d never seen,
so i hated him for his optimism—
i grew up working class &
knew that every family argument came down to
the lack of money being something which
burned us all to the core,
so i hated him for his optimism—
this guy lived on a mattress in his friend’s place,
having already lost his mom &
having had a a major creative project fall right through to the
sewer,
so i hated him for his optimism,
but i loved him for taking the time to tell me—
i loved him for seeing in me
someone who he knew would listen—
i loved him for the mutual friendship that we had &
in that,
optimistic, pessimistic,
whatever—
with the support of a good friend,
there are always options.